The obituary notice of Kathryn CARTER

Morning mum how are you? It’s coming up to Christmas I put your tree up and I’ve got your little bits in you usually get but I don’t have the heart to put your decorations out. I miss you so much mum life is just so unfair. Rubys doing good she’s now finished uni for Christmas and chaus is ok he’s on medication now for his heart bless him. He’s not use to being on his own he usually has you here for him. I still can’t believe I have not seen or spoke to you in forever life is so unfair. I never have any luck. But I do keep putting your lottery on but we still have not won. Hoping your enjoying where ever you may be mum stay close by always love you xxxx

Hey mum how are you? It’s been a while I know. Sorry Am late posting I’ve been away. Leah got married and I got to be bridesmaid. It was amazing obviously you knew she was getting married abroad you would have loved it. Trudy started back a uni so she’s liking that and we’ve just come back from the log cabin can you believe you finally went to a log cabin. Was dead peaceful and relaxing for you. I always said I would take you on adventure obviously would have been so much better for you to be here with us mum but il do my best to try and take you where ever I go. Stephen Michael turned 43 but I was away for his birthday with it being carls too. Where still hoping to take you to Cornwall and Devon as I know that’s what you wanted to do that’s my goal. I’m ok just plodding on. Some days am in a whirlwind mum and it doesn’t seem real if that makes sense but I do my best and try my best to survive. Baileys still his cheeky self he still have this cough but I havnt a clue what it is. Hes had antibiotics twice and yanno he’s a nightmare with tablets he even went off his food. It’s nearly your favourite time of year mum. The only thing missing will be your Christmas cheer. Anyways I will write again soon. Love you always mum xxxx

Hi mum, how are you? I can’t believe it’s been 16 months it’s crazy. It only feels like yesterday that it was the last time you squeezed my hand before you fell asleep peacefully. Hope you’re doing ok where ever you may be mum.

It was Rubys 20th birthday and am sure you would have been watching over her. I know how much she misses you mum and how lonely she feels when am not there. She got her cake though and this years theme was Bridgerton. As you know she loves it.

It was Leah’s hen yesterday and she came with us which was nice but don’t think we like coming out with us loud old people 🤣. She said am loud when I’ve had a drink I must get that from you haha.

I’m taking her To get her hair done on Saturday that’s our little tradition we’ve kept since you can no longer join us. So we always go together like we use too. So that should be fun.

Carl took her to watch a scary movie and he was scared like a little weasel but he’s going to take her to see the conjuring. But I know she would rather you be there to take her, as you know you love your horror movies.

Please watch over her and stay by her side mum. Sometimes it can be hard because am not you and I know she wishes for your words of wisdom and your advice.

Keep close mum

Love you always

Charlene xxxxxx

Hello Kathy it’s bn a long time honestly don’t no wat to write anymore I’m
Heartbroken I can’t move forward how many times does a person say it will
Get better well it won’t it never will I havnt sn ur family since that day we said goodbye how selfish am I I can see in wat charl writes the pain she is in & I can’t comfort her just can’t go into ur home & ur not ther the longer I leave it the harder it’s gona b I was so close to ur children now I’m just a stranger it’s my own fault I look at ur picture all the time & say come bac but u can’t people get on with ther lives I can’t time has stood still got me I miss charl ruby & Stephen just to sit & talk about u wen we all feel the same lost without you il
Always miss you & love you more than ul no but until we see each other take care ❤️💔