The obituary notice of Kathryn CARTER

Hi mum, how are you? I can’t believe it’s been 16 months it’s crazy. It only feels like yesterday that it was the last time you squeezed my hand before you fell asleep peacefully. Hope you’re doing ok where ever you may be mum.

It was Rubys 20th birthday and am sure you would have been watching over her. I know how much she misses you mum and how lonely she feels when am not there. She got her cake though and this years theme was Bridgerton. As you know she loves it.

It was Leah’s hen yesterday and she came with us which was nice but don’t think we like coming out with us loud old people 🤣. She said am loud when I’ve had a drink I must get that from you haha.

I’m taking her To get her hair done on Saturday that’s our little tradition we’ve kept since you can no longer join us. So we always go together like we use too. So that should be fun.

Carl took her to watch a scary movie and he was scared like a little weasel but he’s going to take her to see the conjuring. But I know she would rather you be there to take her, as you know you love your horror movies.

Please watch over her and stay by her side mum. Sometimes it can be hard because am not you and I know she wishes for your words of wisdom and your advice.

Keep close mum

Love you always

Charlene xxxxxx

Hello Kathy it’s bn a long time honestly don’t no wat to write anymore I’m
Heartbroken I can’t move forward how many times does a person say it will
Get better well it won’t it never will I havnt sn ur family since that day we said goodbye how selfish am I I can see in wat charl writes the pain she is in & I can’t comfort her just can’t go into ur home & ur not ther the longer I leave it the harder it’s gona b I was so close to ur children now I’m just a stranger it’s my own fault I look at ur picture all the time & say come bac but u can’t people get on with ther lives I can’t time has stood still got me I miss charl ruby & Stephen just to sit & talk about u wen we all feel the same lost without you il
Always miss you & love you more than ul no but until we see each other take care ❤️💔

Hey mum
How are you? How have you been? Just checking in on you where ever you may be. Life’s pretty much the same. Rubys birthday is coming up and you’re usually here to help me but am having to do it solo. It’s weird. I have no one to ask for advice on things for her etc as you was always there and always was like girl she will love this. It’s pretty cra p mum.

Leah wedding is upon us do you remeber we was talking about it. Well she’s asked me to go bride shopping with her on Sunday which should be fun, but bitter sweet I guess for when it’s my turn I won’t have you there to help or guide me. I know you will be somewhere out there mum. Did I tell you I’ve been learning to drive. It’s going well, she’s a nice teacher better than that other man he was awful haha. But am hoping to be able to take you on adventures to places you always wanted to go so that’s my aim it will be fun. Better late than never ay mum. Ruby passed all her exams too so she’s debating on what to do whether to continue or go in to drama. Yanno she loves drama but I’ve told her to do what makes her feel happy and to go with her gut. Bailey doing ok bless him he’s adorable. He barks when no one’s in the house and he just doesn’t settle. I hope your watching over him when where not in. I still need to get flowers for your hut but I just don’t like any haha. The weather has been roasting you would
Of loved it but you prob would have said it’s too hot.

Oh yeah ruby theme this year is Bridgerton she absolutely loves it. Just unsure on what to do for her birthday yet.

Where going to a log cabin in a few weeks for a few days you would have loved it. So I’ll take you with us. It’s this huge house with a hot tub and loads of land we just need to rent a car. Yes Carlos still doesn’t have a car haha what’s new with him. But Ziggy coming this time obviously that’s not till October, I have Cyprus first. Leah has asked me to be bridesmaid too mum that should be fun, love you always mum xxxx stay close

A big Happy birthday mum, I can’t believe it’s your second birthday without us with you mum, my god that year has flown but yet been so still. You should be here with me now so I can celebrate your day with you and give you your gifts and cakes.

You such a massive part of my life mum and I miss you so much. I miss being able to call you or ask your advice of things, I miss being able to rant to you. I just miss everything mum.

You taught me everything I needed to know in life but the only thing you never taught me is loving without you. That’s been the hardest and still is the hardest thing I have ever and will ever have to do.

I miss your cheeky smile and your infectious laugh. I miss you texting me and trying to wind me up. Life is just so unfair mum.

Today is all about you no matter how sad it will be for me but today is to celebrate your special day.

Ruby missing you loads and misses her best friend, she’s trying to wind me up lately mum watching that you know who man that I don’t like and she laughs to her self.

She’s finished uni now and where just waiting for her results. She is such a lovely child and her brain amazes me of how actually brainy she is as she doesn’t get any of that from me but I know what you would say. She gets it from her nan.

Chaus is doing ok he keeps chasing you in the garden that’s if it is you that keeps coming to play with him.

There is so much to tell you but you probably been watching anyway. Some days time stands still and other days it flys by and then it suddenly hits you again.

Stephen Michael doing ok too he’s had a rocky road but he seems to be getting somewhere now which you would be proud of. He takes after you with your strength courage and determination. He’s going to another concert on Friday so we won’t get to go shopping with each other this week.

Have the most magical birthday I hope you are relaxing. I love you mum never forget that.

Always and forever

Charlene xxxxx

P.s stay close mum