The obituary notice of Clarissa FIELDS

Happy Birthday, Gran.
Today I celebrate more than your age — I celebrate you. You’ve been my safe place, my teacher, my strength, and the mother I never had but always needed. Through your love, I learned what patience looks like, what sacrifice means, and how kindness can heal even the quietest hurts.
You showed up for me in ways that changed my life, often without asking for anything in return. Your love filled spaces I didn’t even know were empty, and because of you, I walk through this world feeling supported, seen, and deeply loved.
Thank you for choosing me every day, for your wisdom, your warmth, and your unwavering care. I carry your lessons, your love, and your spirit with me always. I am who I am because of you.
May your birthday be filled with the same love you’ve poured into my life — today and always. I love you more than words can say.

Nan you are missed and loved. I didn't realise the importance of what you use to say. Example you never miss the water till the well runs dry like a mother who closes her eyes.

The day your eyes closed was the day I understood the meaning of the above saying.

I miss you so much and I am so blessed that I got to spend time with you and grow with you. I am who I am today because of you. You taught me to be independent and to stand alone in this world.

Thank you.

Nan you live on within my heart for ever. You are always there in the back of my mind when I make choices in life. You were my role model and the person I trusted in this world the most. Due to you I have changed and I have become a much better person. I love you nan