The obituary notice of Patricia Marie (Gilfagh Goch) GRIFFITHS (Nee Patsyrual)

Pat
It's the fourth Christmas without you.
Absence truly makes my life without you so empty and lonely.
Tis said that time is a Great healer,so possibly ,the time isn't right yet .
Hopefully things will get better, but whatever it brings ,it won't bring you.
You are constantly in my thoughts.
How I wish I could simply tell you this and make up for all the times I Should have told you .
Missed ,but never forgotten

18/8/2025
Today is your birthday ,and I spent it with the Spanish Mob.
We spent most of the day in Swansea, it was so strange being there,especially without you.
I did remember to get some flowers for you.Im sure you would have liked them . You were always so appreciative of flowers and some other basic but thoughtful gesture.
It was always a so rewarding to see the pleasure they brought to you.
It's now three and a half years since you were so suddenly taken from us,
and the hurt and feeling of desolation
hasn't eased.
I pray each day that God will keep you safe and on that glorious day you will be reunited with those that you would like to be with .
You most certainly deserve that.
Loving you forever,and so very grateful for the life and love we shared .
John

I don't think that I will ever be surprised at both the number of words and beautiful verses created simply by grief and the never ending feeling of loss.
Once again, I have found another tribute that I wish I could claim to, because they express so succinctly and simply my emotions .
It Goes
If I could have a wish come true,
a dream that would come to pass,
I'd ask to spend a day with you and pray that it would last.

I'd run to you and hold you close,
we'd laugh and smile again.
I'd listen so intently as you told me how you'd been.

When time was up, I'd hold you close,
not wanting to let you go.
you'd smile and say "See you soon"
and somehow I would know.

As it is so very hard to wait.
one day the time will come,
I'll join you there for evermore.
When I too am called home.
My wish may go ungranted,
but it always will be true.
I'd trade many of my tomorrows,
for one more day with you.

So, until, or maybe, If we meet again.

One thing will never change.
I'll Love you Forever.

John

Pat
You Truly were Someone Special

You are too precious to be forgotten
And too priceless to replace.
I wish I could share
another moment with you,
And see your smiling face.
Someone so Special as you
is truly hard to find,
someone with a heart so pure,
so caring and kind.
I'll cherish the memories we made,.all the times we spent together,
and I'll hold them tightly in my heart.
from Now until Forever.
John
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Pat
Today is the Anniversary of our wedding,it would have been our 55th.
It's also 55 years to the day'Monday',we were married on Easter Monday 7th April 1969.
It was a beautiful sunny day never to be forgotten.
We went on to create such wonderful memories and family together.
Nothing can take those memories of our shared love, ever.
I pray each night that our Lord will keep you safe until the day you will be reunited with those that you would wish to be with.
You certainly deserve that.
Until that glorious day,rest in peace
Loving you always.
John