The obituary notice of Phillip JARVIS

Hi my darling. I don’t just think of you just on your birthday and Christmas. I often think of you. I question time after time why you had to go first. You were so young compared to to us older ones. Why I managed to survive. After being given 6:8 months God only knows. I know I am stubborn but I would give anything I could to change places with you. Unfortunately I don’t have a clue what the rest of the family are up to. I don’t know if anyone told you but Eileen’s Mick passed away. I kept in touch with Debbie and she was good enough to to let me know on the day. I love and miss you so much. I often have a good laugh at some of the things we used to get up too as kids. You are always in my heart and my mind. I could never ever forget you phill. As siblings. Probably you and I was so close. More than anyone realised God bless you my darling brother. My love always Marj xxxxxx

Hey dad, look what I've found haha. Look how young we all were. Even though you are not here in body with us, you continue to be here in spirit with. Can you believe Archies first scan date was on your birthday and Autumn's due date was your birthday. Always showing up when we need you. This year hasn't been the greatest but I've had a lot of support from mum and knowing you would of been supporting me helped to. Autumn is going up into a feral one, while Archie wears his heart on his selve. Archie loves hearing story's about you and our old times. Can't wait to share them with Autumn to when shes older. We love you so much, always and forever.

Marching on together
keep on tucking

Love Amanda, Archie, Autumn and Bowser.

Happy heavenly 64th birthday Phil
With love
Leslee ❤️❤️

Hi darling I have not really been on here much this last year. Due to various things. But please don’t think for one minute I have not thought if you because I have often. But you know what’s going off. It’s not been an easy year all round. But it’s been one were I wanted everything to stop now. I know how many times I have been to those gates only for you and others to make me go back. I thought I was clever when I says I would beat the cancer. If only I could of cried for myself. Yet that not going to happen, yes cry for all of you and tried my hardest to protect you all. But I didn’t do a very good job of it did I otherwise you and Steve would still be here. Not that in reality chic I have known with the parents on in a billion chances of having the same DNA twist, which was then passed down to all none or a few of their children what were the odds. So yes we have our parents to blame for this not that they had not know either.. well today is the first of January 2026 it makes me sad each new year that goes by it seems to take you that one step further away. But in effect it doesn’t. Maybe it’s because as a brother you face, your laugh, your smiles oh and your eyelashes to any women would die for lashes like you. Is so imprinted on my brain that I will never ever forget anything about you. I do laugh at some of the antics we got up to. There memory’s that can never be taken away from us. I know someone said to lose a brother it feels like they had a arm missing. I couldn’t imagine what that felt like. But I do now. I will love you forever that bond we had will never go darling I do mean never. I love you with all my heart. Oh and please stop
Pushing me back I am far, far too tired to fight anymore. The next time I climb those stairs just let me pass though now. Tell that to everyone it’s just too much now. With my love always your sister Marj xxxxxx💞💞💞💞💞💞💞💞