The obituary notice of Phillip JARVIS

Hey dad, look what I've found haha. Look how young we all were. Even though you are not here in body with us, you continue to be here in spirit with. Can you believe Archies first scan date was on your birthday and Autumn's due date was your birthday. Always showing up when we need you. This year hasn't been the greatest but I've had a lot of support from mum and knowing you would of been supporting me helped to. Autumn is going up into a feral one, while Archie wears his heart on his selve. Archie loves hearing story's about you and our old times. Can't wait to share them with Autumn to when shes older. We love you so much, always and forever.

Marching on together
keep on tucking

Love Amanda, Archie, Autumn and Bowser.

Happy heavenly 64th birthday Phil
With love
Leslee ❤️❤️

Hi darling I have not really been on here much this last year. Due to various things. But please don’t think for one minute I have not thought if you because I have often. But you know what’s going off. It’s not been an easy year all round. But it’s been one were I wanted everything to stop now. I know how many times I have been to those gates only for you and others to make me go back. I thought I was clever when I says I would beat the cancer. If only I could of cried for myself. Yet that not going to happen, yes cry for all of you and tried my hardest to protect you all. But I didn’t do a very good job of it did I otherwise you and Steve would still be here. Not that in reality chic I have known with the parents on in a billion chances of having the same DNA twist, which was then passed down to all none or a few of their children what were the odds. So yes we have our parents to blame for this not that they had not know either.. well today is the first of January 2026 it makes me sad each new year that goes by it seems to take you that one step further away. But in effect it doesn’t. Maybe it’s because as a brother you face, your laugh, your smiles oh and your eyelashes to any women would die for lashes like you. Is so imprinted on my brain that I will never ever forget anything about you. I do laugh at some of the antics we got up to. There memory’s that can never be taken away from us. I know someone said to lose a brother it feels like they had a arm missing. I couldn’t imagine what that felt like. But I do now. I will love you forever that bond we had will never go darling I do mean never. I love you with all my heart. Oh and please stop
Pushing me back I am far, far too tired to fight anymore. The next time I climb those stairs just let me pass though now. Tell that to everyone it’s just too much now. With my love always your sister Marj xxxxxx💞💞💞💞💞💞💞💞

Hi darling I left you one for yesterday wishing you a happy birthday. I just forgot to tell you I moved. I am still in Coalville. Also I and Leslee miss you so very much very very much. I has another fling with death just before Christmas I will spare you the details as I felt you ther bringing me back. I k know this could have been you still here. You only has to live days before you would have had this treatment. However you passed days before it was available. Fennele had you ear marked as his first patient. You know. He was so upset about your passing because he felt this new treatment you had asked about when you asked him it was not available in The UK at the time. After your stay in the hospital he just needed to rest up awhile. Once he got the date it was going to be available in the Uk you were going to get a phone call to be offered it as his first patient. When he was telling me he was going to be in touch with you soon. And I had told him you had passed only 2 days prior to my appointment. The day before my birthday. 12 of may. He was genuinely upset. He said we are only talking days how sorry he was he said although we were like chalk and cheese and he would never have put us together as brother and sister. At first. I liked your brother a man who had a good sense of humour but also the serious man with his accent still intact and proud of it to. With things they knew about he felt live had been unkind to us.but you had something he liked. It would have made his year to have been able to make that call to you. I am not sure if you ever saw that side of him over the years I have the exited scientist he was like a man so serious yet you could also see the glee in his eyes and his excitement at wanting to give people the good news. He was exited the day he said I will be phoning him in days with some very good news. About a treatment. Yoh had asked about but again when I told him you had passed you could see how upset he was so near to be snatched away

Phill my darling brother happy birthday sweetheart hope here’s not a day goes by when I don’t think of you. No one really knew how close we really were. Although sometimes you couldn’t help being two faced. But I accepted that in you. I quite often knew your reasons. But that does not ever stop me thinking of you or loving you. I heard something recently and I was not happy. You should have told me you knoe I would have protected you. I feel like as your big sister I let you down. That’s not a good feeling. I know why you never told me and swore 2 others to secrecy it’s because you know what I would have done but what I would have done about it yoh were most probably right. But that was my decision to make. I know you were only protecting me. But I should have been protecting you as your older sister. I needn’t say what it is as you know now I know. I love you my darling brother I always will.