The obituary notice of Jean JONES

Another Xmas. Another time for reflection. To spare a thought and revisit memories of those who entered our hearts. Memories of special people who will forever remain in the forefront of our minds. Jean you are and always will be out in front as the very best.

I am sure you will be looking out for those family members whose lives you shaped and whom you cherished. It is certain they will always be a credit to you, if they are just a little like you. You can be sure that like I they will be thinking of you wistfully at this time. 

Although our friendship was short by some standards we shared a special bond and you enriched my life like no other.  You introduced me to new music, poetry and literature, along with a raft of other things. We shared so many interests, and our views on many different topics always seemed to align. But more importantly we knew how to make each other laugh and your infectious laugh rings loudly in my ears even now as I am writing!

Sleep peacefully wherever you maybe and be proud of your legacy. I am positive you will have forged your children's lives for the very best and they will know they could not have wished for a better mum. Once more as in every year I will look up to the sky and toast your brightly shining star wherever it may be. I Know it's out there somewhere!.

Goodnight Jean.

Another Xmas Eve to reminisce about our dearly departed friends and family. You were very much more, and I always think of you first, and the longest. You were not only special in my life but to all those who were privileged to have had you as a friend.
As a friend you were ever loyal, supportive, kind, and truly inspirational. You always put others first, and without a thought for yourself. You were selfless to a fault, and to the last. You were kindness and goodness personified.
You had such a big heart; your heartbeats will be forever heard echoing loudly far and wide. They will echo in tune to the sound of Xmas bells. You will be eternally missed by family and loved ones, but their happy memories of you serve to ease the pain. Memories that are cherished and worth more than the price of gold.
You were the most influential person in my life. No one has ever praised me as much as you did. You always had the time for heartfelt words of encouragement and never failed to make me feel good about myself. But then that was second nature to you.
You once said that you believed that I had loved you, and asked me for confirmation. The answer was yes. The truth is I had always loved you and still do. We brought out the best in each other, very much enjoying the same things. Our interests were on a par, and we enriched each other by bringing new things to each other’s attention. Poetry being at the forefront.
I always felt guilty having stopped with our telephone catch ups. However, I honestly believe that doing so may have put you at risk, due to the situation you were in at the time. I couldn’t chance that happening. I was glad when we got back in touch, and you told me how much it meant to you also.
I have once more made that Xmas toast to you and will now go and see if I can get a glimpse of your twinkling star up in the night sky.
Nos da
Sleep tight Jean
xxx

Dear Jean. Lovely Jean. It is once more that time of the year.
When, as ever, I think of you wistfully and a smile is sure to light up my face.
You never failed to make me smile or lift my spirits.
You possessed that elusive magic gift that had you always thinking of others first.
Most who knew you would be better for having walked in your wake.
Even in your darkest days, your cup would never be half empty, but always half full.
Trials and tribulations were cast aside through fortitude and strength.
Although we were to walk down different paths, we merged years later still as strong.
Our last conversation still rings strongly in my ears.
I never knew how little time you had left that day.
But I am sure you gained solace to help you go your way.
You are truly one of the nicest most genuine people to ever grace this earth.
I raise a glass to your shining bright star and thank you for being in my life.

Another year is on the wane, unlike my memories of you that continue to glow brightly. There is never a Xmas where I do not think of you wistfully, and smile when thinking of your splendour and cheeky wit. The world will be forever poorer without your presence. Wherever you may be, think of me tonight as I also think of you. I miss you dearly Jean and will never forget you. Sleep tightly my dear.

The years may quickly fade away but my memories of you will never diminish. Your face, your smile, your persona are etched keenly in my mind. You were always selfless, putting others first no matter what your own situation was. How I so wish we had rekindled our friendship sooner so I could have given you support during your darker days with J, and later. I am wistful at this moment as I listen to the tracks you once recorded for me. Expressive!!

Wherever you may be, I know you will undoubtedly still be looking out for all those you loved, and whose lives were enriched for having known you. Sleep peacefully and Merry Xmas to you Joan. Alan xx

Its 4 years now since you've gone. You inspired me. You encouraged me. I am a better person for having known you. You will be forever in my thoughts. Whenever there is darkness I know I can you look up into the sky and see your star shining bright. Good night Jean. Sleep tight.xx