The obituary notice of Jeff (Zaffar) RAMZAN

It’s coming round to that time where we lost you and I can’t say it’s easier because it’s not
Just you being there , nothing special , just looking across and seeing you there enjoying a nap
Having someone to laugh with over stupid stuff
Anyway hun , I’m looking after the two poorly dogs and can hear you in my head giving me instructions on what to do
All four still miss you , as do I xx

We missed you on the 13th , would have been your 65th birthday
We had a drink for you and we laughed at memories and talked about how much we missed you
Lots of people cared as they sent messages as they knew it would be a hard day for me
Not a day goes by where I don’t mention your name , you’re probably having a laugh somewhere that I still don’t shurrup lol

Love you always xx Arnje

So we went to Filey , the last holiday we had together and my first without you
Dogs loved it , out all day every day
Miss you every day xx Arnje

I’m trying so hard to find my new normal
And I was doing so well - but some days I just want you there , just as it was , and the hard bit is knowing that’s never going to happen
Love and miss you Grumps

Arnje xx

To a wonderful man, who taught me how to tie a tie, to shave, to defend myself against bullies, to work hard, and to be the best i could be.

we had our differences, but over the years we were able to grow our relationship, and now as an adult I understand a lot of those lessons you taught me that I didn't understand at the time.

You didn't just become a father figure in my life, you helped raise me and made me feel like your own flesh and blood, and for that i am truly grateful, for giving me space in your heart.

I wished I'd married my soulmate earlier, while you were still here, so you could be there to see us there on the day. When the time comes, regardless of venue, of seating plans, of dates, there will be a seat reserved for you with your name on, so you can continue to watch over us, and save your legs. and to remind me of the man that made me who I am today.

Rest in Peace, and know that you are thought of and missed every single day.

Miss you xx